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Breakup is not the end: There is life beyond
With the upcoming Valentine Day's coming up, wipe away your tears and throw away the old memories. There is more love to celebrate. The old breakup stories can be forgotten.
Once I happened to hear a conversation between two school-going kids, when I was waiting for my bus. I am 100% sure they should be in class eight or nine.

The conversation started when a girl said to the other, “I don’t know what to do”. The other girl asked, “What are you talking about?”

Girl one said, “Tomorrow is my birthday, he said that he wants to know whether I am accepting his love proposal or not”.

I really felt sorry for the girl who was listening to it and never had anything to say and kept nodding her head.

Girl one continued, “I will do one thing, I will tell him okay for now, but….it should be a secret. I will also tell him that if he lets out the secret that will be the day of our break up.”

The other girl didn’t respond for this as well. But I got a shock out of my life when I heard the word “Break up.” Many questions came into my mind. Is it a problem with the generation or is it a problem of things going in advance. At last I didn’t get a clue.

How much ever the world is going advanced, the pain of chopping a relationship or in their language, breaking up with someone is more than chopping one’s head from the body. If the head is chopped a person dies immediately but if a relationship is cut off one has to live with pain forever, which is horrible to the core.

There are few people who cannot survive the pain result in killing themselves. Love failure – is miserable – you feel lost, you feel the world is empty, you wish everything happened to be a night mare, you feel just to forget yourself, you feel to get rid of the present scenario and you feel even to run away from the world.

There are few more, who go one step ahead and start hurting themselves physically.

For those who faced an utter failure in love, stop it!!! Stop punishing yourself for the person who don’t deserve your love. Don’t give your life to other’s hand and never allow your emotions to dance for someone’s tune. Remember, there is always a beautiful life waiting for you and that is the reason you have been taken out from the illusion. There will be people around you who can give anything to see you fall. Don’t give them the satisfaction.

Stand on your feet, hold your head up high and fight back. Put a smile on your face and stand on your ground. Don’t let anyone break your soul. When nails grow, we cut nails not the finger, same way throw away your sorrows not your beautiful life.

Last but not least, “Never make a permanent decision based on temporary feelings.”

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