“I got totally shattered; break off after 6 years of relationship was a huge thing for me. I am yet to figure out what exactly went wrong, after such a long time we realised that we don’t want each other for life,” said Neha. Thank god it happened now, had it happened bit later, I would have got even shattered, she said.

It’s not easy to see our fairy tales coming to an end but break off is the fact that can’t be denied. It creates a voidness in our lives that hurts a lot. But seeing the brighter side, it leaves us a lesson that lasts forever (most of the times).

“Communication is the most important base of any relationship, if communication is missing, nothing will be left. Let you partner know if he/she has hurt you, don’t keep it to yourself, have open discussion,” concluded Neha.

Break off is the huge eye opener for many, who believe in love at first sight. “I fell in love with my ex the moment I saw her, she was an angelic beauty. I never cared to know her as a person, all I wanted was to be her boyfriend so that I can flaunt her to my friends. After four months of relationship, she started showing her true colours, the angelic beauty turned out to be devil,” said Varun, 20. So don’t run after looks, they can be very deceptive, that’s the clear cut lesson Varun has learnt.

When castism has divided our whole nation, how can young hearts remain untouched? That’s what happened with 21 year old Medha. “I fell for a guy who wasn’t of my caste, I was ready to fight for us but he stepped back. Finally we broke off,” said Medha. “Lucky are those kids, whose parents are open minded, see your family background before you jump into relationship.”

Apart from these serious learners, there are some who learn nothing at all and keep repeating their mistakes. “No learning for me, every girl is good. Unless and untill I date 100 girls, how would I find my true lady love, “opined Rehaan 22.

Whatever may be the reason for break off one thing we all must learn after break up is to forgive, forget and move on.