How could you kill someone you love ?
I believe a broken affair should not stink like a rotten fish. There is a good reason to be sad but life is too beautiful to remain melancholy long. If we love someone we have to learn to live with illusions also.
SOME ONE has said, “Love is wanting happiness and everything that is good for your loved one. Love is not wanting someone, it's wanting what is best for them. I don't care if he is with someone else, as long as he is happy. Knowing that he is happy is all I need. It's about sacrifice.” Police sources said her throat had been slit and there were deep stab wounds on her chest, chin and arms. The 25-year-old was left bleeding, the police said. From a note found near Deepshikha's body, the police have surmised it might be a case of unrequited love. The note read: "You are not faithful to me. You don't love me. You love somebody else." The Mathura police said Varun had thrown himself on the railway tracks. His father Deep Mehta accompanied Delhi officers to Mathura for identification.
"I’m not here to pass a moral judgment but to understand an ultimate dimension of love that is Marriage. I’m or I’ve an illusion that I’m an eternal cockeyed optimist;I always look for a rainbow after any sorrowful storm. What was there in his mind when Varun Mehta killed the fated unfortunate Deepshikha ? What was there in his mind in those final fatal moments before Varun threw himself on the railway tracks ? Was it love or just an ephemeral infatuation ? After the girl jilted or he realized that she is not his baby, was it not possible for him to just cling to her memories, often with tears and laughter ? May be she was a good girl but she was, of course, she was not the best. Memories are more soothing and relaxing than marriage and the accompanied humdrum of life. Couldn’t he wait the situation to cool down ? Being a lawyer he must have known a lot of stormy love marriages that end in ugly divorces - within short time. Love and marriage are not the ‘be all’ and ‘end all’ of life.
Why there are so many divorces now a days ? These characters who bulldoze every thoughts of sanity aren’t the real lovers. As the old Indian song goes - “Phalsafa pyar ka tum kya Jano….” Let me emphasize here that if you fall in love, you fail in love. Isn’t strange ? The real lovers grow in love ! It takes time; it demands commitment; it demands sacrifice and it asks for dedication.
I fully agree that no two people and no two situations are perfect. Many lover become peas in a pod. The perfect people often end up in Real Ashrams, Monasteries and Darghas. When you expect nothing you will never be disappointed.
I believe a broken affair should not stink like a rotten fish. There is a good reason to be sad but life is too beautiful to remain melancholy long. If we love someone we have to learn to live with illusions also. Illusions are not always dressed-up lies. When you love someone you don’t hate them to death for mistakes they make. You try to understand them, help them and you don’t disown them.
You can’t fall in and out of love the way you catch a cold.
"I’m not here to pass a moral judgment but to understand an ultimate dimension of love that is Marriage. I’m or I’ve an illusion that I’m an eternal cockeyed optimist;I always look for a rainbow after any sorrowful storm. What was there in his mind when Varun Mehta killed the fated unfortunate Deepshikha ? What was there in his mind in those final fatal moments before Varun threw himself on the railway tracks ? Was it love or just an ephemeral infatuation ? After the girl jilted or he realized that she is not his baby, was it not possible for him to just cling to her memories, often with tears and laughter ? May be she was a good girl but she was, of course, she was not the best. Memories are more soothing and relaxing than marriage and the accompanied humdrum of life. Couldn’t he wait the situation to cool down ? Being a lawyer he must have known a lot of stormy love marriages that end in ugly divorces - within short time. Love and marriage are not the ‘be all’ and ‘end all’ of life.
Why there are so many divorces now a days ? These characters who bulldoze every thoughts of sanity aren’t the real lovers. As the old Indian song goes - “Phalsafa pyar ka tum kya Jano….” Let me emphasize here that if you fall in love, you fail in love. Isn’t strange ? The real lovers grow in love ! It takes time; it demands commitment; it demands sacrifice and it asks for dedication.
I fully agree that no two people and no two situations are perfect. Many lover become peas in a pod. The perfect people often end up in Real Ashrams, Monasteries and Darghas. When you expect nothing you will never be disappointed.
I believe a broken affair should not stink like a rotten fish. There is a good reason to be sad but life is too beautiful to remain melancholy long. If we love someone we have to learn to live with illusions also. Illusions are not always dressed-up lies. When you love someone you don’t hate them to death for mistakes they make. You try to understand them, help them and you don’t disown them.
You can’t fall in and out of love the way you catch a cold.
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