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Indians consider their women to be humane
Its human nature to err, be violent and abusive, but in India, women are considered innocent. Our society in general refuses to accept the fact that even women can commit evils like men. The law let violent women walk away with a slap on the wrist.
 
Wed, Jul 02, 2008 11:24:21 IST
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EVERYWHERE I look, I see men and women behaving badly. I used to think that this kind of behaviour happens only to other people; but, it has infiltrated my home and my very family as well.

My little sister picked up a knife and attacked my brother. She almost killed him. Luckily, he caught her hand on time and brought her to face the rest of our family, so that they may see what kind of person she is. They refused to believe him. He was mad at them. She was very good at deceiving people.

One of the last people I expected to show a violent streak was my aunt Nilu – my paternal aunt. She has always been the kind and gentle one that I could approach in my moments of trouble. One day she just turned around and struck her husband, my uncle then went to the police station and turned the tables, who in turn arrested her husband’s whole family. My poor uncle and his family have been going from pole to post, in and out of the Indian courts for the past eight years. The law simply refuses to accept they are innocent; while my aunt is settled with a new uncle who is her sweetheart from school and now in office . She have a child whom she enjoys abusing and spanking.

Seriously, females are always complaining about harassment in workplaces. If you ask me, I think a lot of female employees harass their male co-workers and even bosses, just because they can get away with it. I mean, those moronic judges and juries find it impossible to believe that women in power are capable of abusing and turning the workplace into a nightmare for the working man. It’s women like my cousin sister Kamalika who give the workplace a bad name. When she was caught red handed by her company for misappropriation of client’s funds and company assets, and was in the process of being terminated when she dropped the bomb-shell of complaining to the authorities of sexual harassment if not relieved with due respect instead of a termination so that she could get another job. Today she is misappropriating another company’s funds and assets to satisfy her material greed. I don’t think Kamalika’s threat about sexual harassment was a random one. I think she may be planning to make a false accusation even against the most powerful chief executive officers (CEOs) of some of the largest multi-national companies (MNCs).

I put her my aunt and my sister in the category of worthless women who whine and continue having their way, by deceiving all under the cover of sexual vulnerability.

Now, there is no one I can trust. There is an epidemic of violence around me. It would seem that women are catching up with men in violent crimes. Women abuse their children, their spouse, their friends, relatives, colleagues even strangers. Verbal bashing and slapping, as well as attacks with knives and other things are all examples of domestic violence. Men and women can be victims as well as perpetrators. The police and the law seem unwilling to admit that women are capable of doing the same evil deeds that some men do. There is a shroud of secrecy there. Abused men have been complaining for years. Now I see the evil that women can do – I realised it only when I saw it in my own family. Until then I too never believed we women could be more evil, than evil can be.

It frightens me. It reminds of a movie I saw not long ago ’Dawn of the Dead’. In this movie, a virus starts turning people into violent zombie-like killers and very few normal humans remained to face them. I feel like men and women everywhere around me are becoming monsters. The cops and the law only stop violent men. They let violent women walk away with a slap on the wrist. It is frightening to think as to how much some women can easily get away by merely playing the victim. Man is not always the bad guy. Sometimes, the man who beats the woman could be defending himself from a feral attacker. Yet the cops and the law refuses to acknowledge it.

Gradually I witnessed my cousin, aunt and sister becoming violent monsters that someday I must face. My cousins are frightened. There is so much to fear in the outside world. Home is supposed to be safe. When will the law realise that even women can really commit acts of domestic violence toward their children, spouses, relatives, colleagues and even the society?

Not as long as the fanatic feminist movement is around to make all the men look bad and blame all of society’s problems on them. Yes, I call them fanatics because they do all the evil and like the fanatic terrorists they seek refuge under the cause, making us believe that they are right in their act of doing wrong. Granted, some men do bad things but women are even worse. We as a society must open our eyes and look for signs of trouble and find ways to deal with them. Our husbands, boyfriends, girlfriends, wives and children are not safe as long as we refuse to recognise that domestic violence in a two-way street. Don’t listen to the fanatic feminist propaganda, people. Open your eyes.

Don’t lose hope. You are not alone. Although the media does not think women are capable of hurting men, it does happen. The bias against men shows at almost every level in society. In college campuses. In the courtroom. At home. Wherever you go, the radical fanatic feminist are continuing their evil work. They pretend to want to help women. They do not help women. What they want to do is to destroy the family, the foundation of every society including the Indian society and increase the number of fatherless children in India, like in the West . They consider marriage and having children as being a trap for women. Many women want to get married and have kids and there is nothing wrong with that at all. These radicals, pretend to be the allies of the society. They pretend to help the children and the old achieve equal rights. They do not truly desire that. What the fanatic feminist want to do is destroy the existing societal structure. They think all men are evil and all women are innocent and victims. They don’t want equal rights. They want special rights. They think they are untouchable and no one dares to oppose them. Anyone who opposes a fanatic feminist, no matter how radical it becomes soon gets demonised by the fanatic feminist’s secret weapons, media manipulation and by bribing the government.

These fanatic radicals have betrayed feminism. They don’t want equal rights for women and men. They want to destroy. I don’t consider them human anymore. And I consider myself a humanist.

Hopefully, in future time, people will realise how anti-male and anti-family these so-called activists are. People will cease to listen to their garbage and men and women will move toward a better future as friends, lovers and equals.

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this article is very true and my family is also going through all this. my father and one more worker as been falsely implcated in sexual harassment case by their coworker. she has put false allegation on both of them just because my father and that another man being her seniors asked her to work and complaint against her that she has not worked and completed her work..now my family is ruined coz of this and its been 5 years this case is pending in court. i know this is not a right place to ask this but can u please give me some suggestion or legal advice that how to come out from this false case...plz help us
 
 
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Sanjana, I agree with you fully. I am surprised that a woman has written such a brilliant article. But the degeneration of the status of men is on account of MEN. They refuse to believe that women have become very modern. I know plenty of cases where women have committed adultery, initiated it and filed false dowry harassment and domestic violences cases against the innocent men. High time men wake up and organise. The problem in India is that women have formed powerful vote-banks. Men have to counter that.
 
 
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Sanjana u r definitely a male writing as a woman.........
 
 
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Another eg of what I have been trying to prove!! Do not blame you. This how the Indian Society is groomed and bred - if something is written / done against men its fine, but if its written against women and their ideas, they cannot expect another woman to do so - they simply want women to stick together and support the cause weather or not its right or wrong, even if it means supporting the absolute lies and going to any extend of committing violence - that is why I call it FANATISM.Do give me a good reason of why a woman cannot write or should not right about the wrong doings in the name of FANATISM?
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