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Is this really misuse?
How does it feel when you come to know at a usual night that, just because you had married to a greedy woman or went into live in relationship with a wrong woman, you are no longer a normal citizen but a criminal as per law? It hasn't stop then and there, to spoil the whole family financially and mentally there is a whole package of litigations coming on the way.

Since your birth you have been told that women are innocent. Everywhere in school, college and even in jobs you have been getting lessons that women are suppressed for years. Although the books in school were filled with the stories of women like Sita and Draupdi, who, as per mythology, portrayed strength in women still the society and the teachers have taught, that female are the weaker sex and have always been harassed by men.

Society has set a standard that makes every man grow up believing that a woman should be respected and been treated as "devi". Every man keeps following this blindly till the day come when he gets tagged as criminal just because he has got married or being involved with a wrong woman.

All this made me think what actually the reality is? Is this true that women are really getting treated as the society tries to make us believe or the reality is far beyond this illusion? And yes! When I opened my eyes and start reading the stories behind every picture, got to know that society was right, there is no gender equality in this country.

Man has to sometime struggle hard throughout his life to prove the lies, which have ruined his life and a woman is enjoying even after lying on every point. Everyone, including society, police & judiciary accept that the law is being misused by women, still they want the law should be there as it is, because this law favors women and no one has guts to voice for making change in a law which favors women.

Cases are being filled just to settle the scores, to take revenge and to make money. All government agencies knowing all the facts behind, want man to bend down on illegal demands, advocating it is in favor of men. Which favor they talk about?

Ask a man who has been put behind the bars just because his wife wants him to be a henpecked husband and he refused, or ask a man who caught his adulterous wife in his own bedroom with another man, also ask to a man who as per his wife could not meet her social and financial status, or even ask to a man who wants to come out from a relationship with an abusive and dominating live in partner. Is this is in favor of these men?

No this is in favor of those who want to safeguard themselves from delivering judgment on the basis of merits against a woman, so that, they will not be targeted by feminists' organizations.

Newspapers are being filled with crime against women though the government data itself proves that whatever coming in newspaper is 10% true. 98% cases of Dowry Harassment and 76% cases of Sexual Harassment are false. Still everything is accepted and misuse is continuously being denied by some biased feminists.

One of the feminists has said to me that "this is not misuse this is called use of this law". I also question myself that day, "is this really misuse?" No this is not actually misuse this is "harassment". She was right, the laws were designed to get used in this way only, just to harass men and is actually getting use for the same.

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