It makes you go through rough roads so that you know there is a long way to go. It gives you failures, for failure means delay not defeat. It makes you feel totally unwanted and worthless. Makes you feel lost and broken.
However, what we all fail to understand is that sometimes not fixing things and being unaware of the worldly concern is the right thing to do. Clinging onto the idea that life offers promised happiness is a myth. There is no such thing like guaranteed happiness.
Slow down, for whatever you really want will be there when you get there if you work towards it without stress, without pressing. If you do not find it there, then it is not supposed to be there. If you miss it, perhaps you should have missed it. Because at the end of the day you are only a puppet who is being controlled in someone else’s story.
(The article is jointly written by Anu Goel, Counselling Psychologist and Urvi Gauri)