“I DON'T have a heart and that is true because it has gone from me to you, but obviously you don’t care the way I do”.
Do we really love or just abuse each other in the name of love by indulging into pithy mind games. Love often steals over us in tender youth and leaves us with no peace because either we fear to loose that person or ourselves. But in place of two friends coming together and making it easy for each other to go beyond egos, they make it all the more difficult.
What happens consequently is that people part without uttering a single word, plunging each other into deep anguish and life gets reduced to mere existence and time is not a healer and hurt is also painful.
But instead of valuing the friend, who changes the life just by being part of it and makes us believe that there is really good in this world, an unlocked door just waiting to be opened, we try to be over-smart. We approach love like we fiddle with a puzzle, out of curiosity. For everyone love as a meaning, as a practice and as an outcome is different phenomenon, but love as a feeling for everyone is same. But, nowdays people are more desperate to get into relationships out of peer pressure or in other words want to have exclusive rights over that person. Nevertheless, love is not only gaining someone, but also losing ourselves to someone. If we love anyone it is not because of their excellence or personality but purity of their heart and when this does not happen we blame the other person instead of realizing that it is not always the other person, who is responsible. Going by the notion we should not give up hope because the measure of who we are in life is not by how much we own or how people regard us, it is by what portion of eternal love we have discovered in life as that alone goes with us at the time of death and enshrining it once again within us, our journey proceeds in this life and other lives as well.