LONG GONE are those days when families would sit together over tea, discuss their backgrounds, match attributes (largely the positions of planets!) of the to-be partners, and build up a marriage after scores of meetings.
And then a revelation scoops in that combats the orthodox world: Love in just a click! From online friendships and finding pals over the internet to binging another chapter to life – ’online relationships’!
Well, call it time conservation; or maybe not favouring to go through the tedious customary standards of scheduled meetings, driving from one place to the other hunting for a groom or a bride. It all sparks off from torrents of checkmarks in matrimonial columns, laddering down to phone conversations, enlisting all names that seem to shape some sense, short listing the same list over a dozen times, and finally fixing up encounters. The same sequence probably reiterates, until ‘perfection’ in ‘compatibility’ is assimilated.
However, the clocks for Gen-I seem to be ticking on conversed backgrounds. All one requires is a socialising website and that in itself does the trick!
In the new age world, anything that is time consuming becomes a peculiar drama, and accomplishments are not mere implications of hard earned money that’s life for you in just the click of a finger. And finding one’s soul-mate in the click of a mouse is just a sequel to the entire story. ‘Facebook’, ‘Orkut’ and ‘MySpace’ have proven to be the administrators when it comes to talking about love over Internet.
Here’s how the story leads; you meet someone through chats, instigate a random conversation with a person that seems to match your tastes, exchange indiscriminating messages, and eureka! It’s never too late before one realises that they’re asking the other out! What next? Schedule up a meeting – more like a ‘date’ – and the path to a successful relationship hold is constructed.
Nevertheless, there might be a bit of hesitancy involved in terms of reliability and trustworthiness come in; since pouring dependencies over means of online interactions in some cases might prove to be a wrongly constructed fixture. But this foul play doesn’t seem to be playing in the minds of the youth, and running their contemplations over the same is not a worrying factor.
Furthermore, allowing people to bring the complete globe right on their computer screens and letting them communicate with a person sitting on the far end of the map eases out the entire equation; according to some people, ’it makes the dating procedure a funfest’.
This undemanding access to a complete spectrum of uncharacterised populace and being able to connect with them in a matter of seconds, is perhaps one boom that forbids youth to follow conventional standards. Moreover, the first impression directly targets the expressive behaviour of the opposite sex rather than counting on the exterior and postural attributes.
Secondly, the relationship ascertained lies completely within a person’s will, and the judgment between ‘approvals’ and ‘disapprovals’ is comprehensively in their hands. This sketches a line of difference between personal decisions and family intervention; allowing the pair involved to comprehend on their own terms.
The count of ‘online’ relationships graduating into marriages has apparently escalated over the past few years – with many turning into successful ones! It has seemingly been one of the ‘newest’ trends the Generation-Y has been adopting.