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Marrying an NRI: Think again?
Women married to NRIs, don�t take long to realise that marriages are not made in heaven. Their dreams of foreign settlement are shattered even before it started. How can we curb such incidences while personal gains are at stake?
 
Sun, Apr 06, 2008 18:53:59 IST
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INDIAN WOMEN are facing another kind of mental and physical trauma especially in the states of Punjab, Gujarat and Haryana where incidences of fraudulent NRI marriages are on the rise. Every month hundreds of cases are being reported in the media. The National Commission for Women (NCW) receives several complaints from desperate women abroad for being duped by their NRI husbands.
 
There are thousands of others, languishing in their village home waiting for the call from America or Canada that never comes. NRI brides are forced to put up with lying, cheating, false promises, and unreasonable dowry demands; not to mention divorce, desertion and abduction of children. According to NCW there are nearly 15,000 women deserted by NRIs in Punjab alone. Gujarat with a substantial NRI population also has a large number of battered women in need of help. Women are especially vulnerable in foreign country often without any financial support. They have no one to turn at the time of crisis.
 
The decision of ministry of Overseas Affairs to appoint volunteers in countries with a high density of NRIs and PIOs to carry out check of the grooms abroad has remained just on paper. With globalisation the number of NRI-Indian marriages is on the rise. It is sometimes impossible for the bride’s parents in India to verify the credentials of the NRI grooms. What is required is some institutional mechanism in order to get some authentic information before these so called NRI marriages are finalised. Indian missions should help out with the task in conjunction with local NGOs and even come to the rescue of victims of these fraudulent marriages. Police and law enforcing agencies in India need to be more sympathetic in dealing with them. FIR reporting should be made possible for the victims from the influential families. The government needs to bring in a comprehensive regulation to ensure that all the protection accorded by the law to all Indian women with regard to -marriage, divorce, maintenance, inheritance and custody of children are applicable to victims of fraudulent NRI marriages as well.
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These fraudulent NRI marriages take place and the one who in the end suffers the most is the woman, who is sometimes abused, physically, emotionally, financially, made to work, and the husband lives off her income, treated as a slave, completely isolated and confined to her home.Most times the woman is totally unaware of the laws of the adopted country as well as language spoken, believes what her husband tells her and is afraid to leave. Husbands also confiscates her passport and relevant papers to keep her under control. then these women if they are lucky come to women's shelter. where they r helped to regain their independence.the government of India needs to do something to help these women, educate parents, enlist local ethnic organization in these countries to help parents to find out about the prospective NRI grooms.
 
 
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i am 24 years old , i want to marry a girl who is not resident of india,
 
 
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Same old fake story.A petition (Under RTO 2005) has already been submitted to Ministry of External affairs and he (vavlar ravi) has admitted that there are only 160 confirmed cases of desertion. We have asked NCW also to share the case details of these 15000 deserted women and they have said IT IS ONLY AN ESTIMATE with NO PROFF. From when did estimates by NCW become truty?Shame on NCW and shame on India for propagating such lies to scare women and get some votes saying they will do something. In the mean whle the govt without any shame wants contributions from NRI in the name of pravasi divas.Shame shame india. I am disgusted.
 
 
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