In the changing times and fast evolving landscapes, people are still finding it hard in our country to keep up with changing trends. There has been and will be lot of arguments between opposite sexes that who is the best and tolerant of all. The idea is pretty simple though, that if they live in harmony they can create paradise or expect a doomed future for both sides.

Still many of us live our lives and are reluctant to accept that all the choices we make are not always right and there could be mistakes, if prolonged could lead to mental and physical disaster. When should you know is the mystery. Most of the searches till date reveal that all men think that women are the same, but for the benefit of all my fellow men, here is a secret, do not go by the myth as each and every woman you meet will be different. Unlike men, women hardly believe in facts and figures and go by their instinct, most of the time!

For women a going trend these days is heartbreak, but why? When should they figure out that how and where is the relationship going. Science here always works, almost, men and women could never be in harmony as friends for a long time, i.e., if you call each other best of pals. It could happen only while you were in school and didn’t get puberty.

Times are changing, but as Indians we need to agree that our thought process is more relationship based unlike the time based culture of the west. Emotional turmoil in one’s life could lead to professional turmoil.

And as times are changing my fellow men should forget the cupid for a while and put logic as they normally do in the forefront if they want a relationship, as if you don’t, the end result is only accusations. Even if they think the special friend in their life is more than that, they should keep their feelings till they do not hear it confidently from their love interest, remember "A smile could be deceptive". That is, if they want a long term one.

As the world is getting smaller the options have widened enough for my sisters and they need not settle down for some one where they need to hold up themselves, hence men these days are facing more rejections while they are hardly prepared for it. This ideology is redundant and needs to change from within to get a happy life partner and not a seductress who whines when alone. If our approach is always rigid with a set frame of mind that 2 plus 2 will make 4, then be in for a surprise as human mind is way beyond mathematical calculations. As time passes and if you want to hear interesting facts about relationships then wait for my next write up. I have understood that these days nothing gets inside one’s mind without set examples. You will meet people of opposite sex from all walks of life, but every time you meet, be up with a fresh mind to unwind and unlearn and you could resolve the ultimate mystery of living in the moment forever.

I would love to hear interesting incidents from readers as it will throw more insight to the circle we are into.