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Unjust Humanity
Should Governments allow so much power to feminism? 09 May, 2014
Feminism, feminism and feminism; we see so much of feminism around us that one starts getting a suffocating feeling of gynocentric society wherein a man is a man no more if a woman challenges his manhood.

Such a social structure is extremely precarious and is very dangerous for men to thrive in. It forces men to be protectors of women and failed protectors are deemed automatic criminals. However, as truth is stranger than fiction and humans are cognitive misers; this dangerous trend of human existence is a bitter truth.

Today, feminism is not only a way of life but also a rule of life. Laws are governed by feminist policies, advertisements are driven with the thought of a man pleasing a woman (Tanishq Ad) or a woman condemning a man for not standing up to her choices (Amul body warmer), education is corrupted with feminist thoughts. In fact, the entire society has been poisoned by feminism.

Any challenge to feminism is seen as a challenge to womanhood and becomes a national issue. The entire battery of media channels, paid or otherwise, pounce like hungry wolves on to a single person who dares to challenge the bigotry and hypocrisy of feminism be it Farooq Abdullah or Mulayam Singh Yadav. Feminists not only distort the statements made, present half-truth or pure lies but also showcase open hooliganism challenging the very diktat of free speech.

With extreme non-acceptance and deep-rooted male hatred (misandry), almost all feminist choices work conscientiously against men and their choices under the cute veil of working for women empowerment. Feminism falsely poses itself as a byproduct of patriarchal oppression. In reality, feminism sleeps with patriarchy at night and feigns victimhood at the nigh of dawn.

Patriarchy patronizes feminism and while feminism is happy to reap the dividends of patriarchy, it’s not ready to accept the flip side of patriarchy. This convenience of choice portrayed by feminists disrupts the social structure as it infringes into the rights of men and takes away their rightful right to fight for their rights. Conscious efforts by feminism, has surely ensured that the phrase “men’s rights” attains humorous undertones and is trivialized by the society.

However, this is just one side of the coin. This is just the true face of feminism. The story would remain incomplete without having had a look at the spine of feminism. In reality, if feminism was wrought with flaws as showcased above, what made it thrive to the extent of having “Feminist Jurisprudence” as a separate subject in the study of law?

The spine of feminism is the underlying thought that – “a woman best understands a woman’s pain”. I must admit that this sugar coated statement sounds solid enough to be insurmountable, invulnerable, and versatile enough to sail feminism through the social obstacles it meets while spreading its stems and leaves across. But, in the first place, is the statement in itself truly correct?

I have seen daughters more wary of their mothers and mothers more critical of their daughters. I have seen sisters more jealous of each other and female cousins playing more games in the lives of their female counterparts in the constant struggle for power which engulfs the basic human instinct.

I have seen women more uncomfortable of women around than men being around them and an equal feigning of this feeling. In fact, it is so true that women do understand each other very well and that’s why hate each other that it’s just not possible for a woman to understand another woman’s pain.

In reality, by claiming that women understand another woman’s pain, the feminists play the smart game of shifting the burden of blame onto men for the choices that women make in order to satiate their power hunger.

I have seen mothers ruining their son’s life just so that their control over the family does not go away. I have seen mothers controlling the lives of their daughters so that they can use the daughters to blame other men in their lives and in this process, not take any responsibility for their actions and blame it all on men.

While one can possibly argue that all these are my interpretations and not necessary absolute truths, suffice it to mention here that the world, as it occurs to us, is a function of our interpretations. Absolute truth is a myth because the absolute truth is that every single individual is responsible for their entire life and there is no scope for any blame game. However, given the number of blame games we come across in our daily lives, it remains an unanswered question – are we even aware of the absolute truth?

So, while feminist interpretations are forming one after another anti-male law and other anti-male socio-legal policies, I prefer to offer my interpretation about feminism and its over-indulgence in the society.

And the questions still remains open before the society at large - Should Governments allow so much power to feminism?

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About The Author
Virag R Dhulia, a software professional, has been a prominent men's rights activist. He has been engaged in creating awareness about the abuse of men and their families through anti-male and gender biased laws like Section 498A, Domestic Violence Act etc. He has been instrumental in networking with fellow men's rights activist both across India and abroad and has played key roles in organizing events to create awareness about abuse of men by the society. A book titled, 'The Secrets of Manhood' authored by Virag has been published. This book is a collection of short articles which focus on issues and problems faced by men and how men are victims of social stereotypes.
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Friend, the answer to your question "Should Government allow so much feminism" is simple: no. But who is Government? If it was up to feminists (and many women are at least crypto feminists even if not confessing the name upon themselves) they would like Government to have complete control over you -- a feminist Police state, where men can be harassed by Police at the push of a button by a woman. This is largely true today, and feminists do their all to teach many women to push that button as often as they can. With new Hindu Marriage Act, the button means instant cash! So, you must rise up against such government, of course. Now, your "spine of feminism" is a very good observation. And I give you the ultimate argument for what you describe: Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). Feminists use this barbaric practice of some regions of Africa, they use it at any time to drum up sentimental support for women's victim position. But feminists also don't do anything about it. They can not, because FGM is done by women, mothers or aunts to daughters or nices, and is done against the pleading of men. Feminists and the women committing the cruel crime of FGM all blame men, but they never stop committing the crime. They even commit it on themselves, against the pleading of their husbands. But they still blame men. Here is an African research paper that shows the truth. It is a study based on in-depth interviews about female genital mutilation with both women and men in their role as wife and husband and parents of daughters. The salient points are: - female genital mutilation is what women do to women - men do not enjoy this practice, - men don't demand it - it is the women who propagate the false belief that men want it - men have complications and pain and difficulty with this too - men have much more enjoyment when the woman can enjoy sex too - men have compassion for their wives - men ask their wives not to do re-infibulation after birth - but women decide this among themselves - it is female peer pressure that keeps this going - most women were planning it to have their daughters genitally mutilated - most men did not want this for their daughters Women can stop female genital mutilation by listening to men instead of believing they know it all better. But that doesn't stop women from splitting off their resentment about the self-inflicted atrocity and projecting it on the men with these stories that they are doing it for the men, when it is the men who ask them not to do it. As the 45 year old Sudanese man says: "It would have been better if my daughters were not circumcised, but I couldn't help it for many reasons; I was not there when they were circumcised and traditions and customs are very strong even if I had been there. I got angry, but there is no point. My wife would get angry if my daughters were not circumcised. She did RI for herself even though I did not accept it." I can clearly feel the sense here how this stuff is considered in the women-domain and men have no say in it. It feels powerless to me. Yet, nevertheless, women are blaming men not to put their foot down and stopping the practice, yet it is women who propagate it. Consider this, then. Is that "patriarchy" there in Sudan? Do men have all the "power and control" over women? Apparently not. What do men want? They obviously want a woman who enjoys sexual pleasures with them. But women tie themselves shut (I think as much figuratively as literally). There is absolutely no fun in it and many men will have real difficulties having any sex with their wives. Is that the point why women do it to themselves? This is such a good piece to learn how deeply evil feminism is, and how much women only hurt themselves and their children by not giving up their sense of moral and emotional supremacy. If women were actually listening to men and following their gentle pleading instead of demanding men to force reason upon them, there could be partnership and joy. But feminists don't want partnership and joy. Feminism is pure and evil hate and nothing but hate. For this reason feminists don't ever do ANYTHING about female genital mutilation. They only ever use it to gain power and money for their propaganda of hate. Making the world a better place starts necessarily by condemning feminism, breaking up the female hive mind, and start seeing men as compassionate loving partners. And men who support feminism are so misguided, because those who support feminism are guilty of propagating violence against children, women, and men. So with this, your argument you made is rock-solid. Now build a strong resistance of one man waking another. Denounce feminism in public. Leave feminists and throws feminists out of your life. Boycott TV, and Boycott most Bollywood (and Hollywood) flicks and soap operas, for almost all bring the feminist toxine into your home. Take control of your home. Take control of your legislatures. Fight feminism everywhere it raises its ugly head. Feminism is a Hate-Movement. Stop is Now!
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