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Unjust Humanity
Virag
The convenient male victim theory 12 July, 2008
Dr Rajesh Talwar gets bail but who is accountable for his false prosecution as per the convenient male victim theory? Once again the civil society and the government are urged to look into the issues faced by the men of today's world.

DR RAJESH Talwar finally gets a bail and will soon be acquitted since the police have failed to produce/gather any motive for the murder let alone any evidence against him. Its over a month that the father, who lost his daughter, had to face harassment simply on the basis of police interrogation. Will the police give reason for accusing Dr Talwar of the murder, without doing proper homework and just succumbing to out-blown media trials.

Sensation crazy and television rating point (TRP) hungry media channels were flashing the case like some detective murder story and had put so much pressure on the authorities that they caught the father as per the ’convenient male victim theory’ and harassed him for so many days without reason, without even allowing him to sink in the fact that his beloved daughter is no more and has been murdered at a tender age of 14.

After he was released on bail, the media was happy celebrating, forgetting the fact that it was the same media whose pressure had led the father to being harassed beyond limits, and so he was made to take the blame of his daughter’s murder upon him. He was projected as a villain in the media ab initio and this was even before either the motive of the murder was established or any evidence found against him, the media had already reconstructed the event and flashed it across.

This was highly demeaning of national media acting in a highly immature manner just to gather publicity and riding on its convenient male victim theory. When no clear motive/evidence were available, catch hold of the nearest male relative of the murdered and frame a story to explain their conclusions. Now the media is happily flashing the bail news of Dr Talwar, and also showing the three actual accused, what accountability it will take to justify the harassment Dr Talwar underwent.

If Dr Talwar had committed the crime, why would he do it inside his own house? Everyone ignored this simple question and happily believed the father to be the murderer of his own daughter. For how long will the males in the society in general, and Indian society in particular, continue to live in suspicion? Suspicion of committing a crime, suspicion of having done something gravely wrong for being subjected to injustice, suspicion of breaking a relationship.

Does the society, the media and the government consider males as human beings having some basic rights? Every year 80, 000 males commit suicide as per suicide statistics provided by National Crime Records Bureau, yet males in this country do not have a single helpline to fall back upon in case of a crisis, let alone a National Commission for Men or a Men’s Welfare Ministry to redress their grievances. This dismal state of males continues to exist irrespective of the fact that males contribute to 82 per cent of the taxes paid in the country.

Who will restore the lost pride, integrity and moments of togetherness with his wife Nupur Talwar when they had lost their child? The media had even finished the trial based on what they seemed to have happened and also showed mock interrogation sessions. Is this some kind of a joke that the media is playing. The media needs to sensitise itself highly in dealing with matters concerned with males. Males are just treated as criminals in the media for no fault of theirs. Aarushi had the Women and Child Development minister Renuka Choudhary speaking for her, but who spoke for Dr Talwar? Nobody.

The convenient male victim theory needs to be dropped. In the whole episode, the invisible victim, Hemraj was conveniently forgotten just because he was a male.

Once again the civil society and the government are urged to look into the issues faced by the men of today’s world. How they are being made convenient scapegoats in blind compliance with the ’convenient male victim theory’? This cornering is leading the society towards an impending catastrophe waiting to happen, the consequences of which will remain unforeseen, untold and perhaps unbearable.

About The Author
Virag R Dhulia, a software professional, has been a prominent men's rights activist. He has been engaged in creating awareness about the abuse of men and their families through anti-male and gender biased laws like Section 498A, Domestic Violence Act etc. He has been instrumental in networking with fellow men's rights activist both across India and abroad and has played key roles in organizing events to create awareness about abuse of men by the society.
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.i am divorced since 19 years now my ex is giving lot of problem to my aged mother by telling them that they have got a claim in my father's property, whereas my father has gifted his property to my elder brother pls help me in this issue as what to do thanks & regards swami swami_62@rediffmail.com
.Why only a man is accused ... why not a women ..? i am not sure but i have seen in many Telugu movies ... where the judge says ... the motto of Indian Judiciary system is ... its ok to not punish the criminals but its important not to punish the innocent ... I am not sure ... if it is true ... but in reality ... the opposite is true ... its OK to punish as many innocent as possible to get that 1% people who commit crimes ... god help this country ...
.REminds me of story of german american and indian police where in the Indian police caught hold of monkey and beat it it up to get it to confess that the monkey is a bear
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