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To pull noose around neck also needs courage
It seems to be a week of bad news. One of the highest rated bad news is always death. Death of any kind has always been the topic of discussion. First, the death of director Rituparno Ghosh, then the death of actor Abir Goswami followed by the reported suicide of actor Jiah Khan.

Death, whether it is untimely or accidental or staged, turns down to just one emotion – sadness. Accidental, untimely deaths come with a package of their own pain and sadness which becomes hard to accept. But when death is chosen, it becomes an altogether different scenario.

Yesterday, I glanced through a newspaper. First, I read about the suicide of Jiah Khan who reportedly hanged herself at the age of 25 after suffering from trauma and depression. I read it first because it was highlighted by the newspaper, given that she was an actress.

The other two news articles that put me off were these:

Girl kills herself after mother scolds for breaking a mobile phone.

Teenage girl kills herself when refused to attend pal’s wedding.

These news articles made me wonder if the teenagers of our generation are turning out to be a weaker pillar of the nation. Apparently, it seems that of all the options, suicide seems to be an easier option for these children. And let me tell you this – while you need a certain amount of courage to achieve great heights in life, you need double the courage to actually kill yourself.

Looks like the teenagers as young as 12 or 14 have the courage to kill themselves over a mobile phone or an examination failure or a love proposal or just plain depression. Emotionally, these children are not stable as they fail to accept some situations. Yet, they had the necessary mental preparation to take their own lives.

They say it is weakness to commit suicide because those who run away from problems are cowards. I refuse to agree with this because I believe deep down you need an extra nerve to actually pull the noose around your neck. For normal people, the very thought itself can send shivers. I shudder at the thought myself.

These children, who are courageous enough to kill themselves, if for a moment, had they thought about applying the same courage to the situation they faced, life would have turned out differently for them. It’s not just about having courage to do something big in life. But it’s about applying the courage in the proper direction.

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