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Why girls fall in and out of love repeatedly?
This article focuses on the present day relationships between boys and girls and argues how they are facing the problem of choosing the true life partner and wasting time by knocking the wrong doors.

BOYS ARE so worried about the strange behavioral pattern of girls and always get annoyed at  their unexpected reaction to various issues. Boy or a girl who is in a relationship will always be possessive until the end of his/ her relationship. These relationships are always complicated.

After months of living together, due to the unmatched opinions, the row starts and the relation ends with separation. Later, they go on in search of new love and try to match opinions with others. The same trauma happens here too. After all experiments with the maximum number of persons they can, they declares that there exists no love and what actually is present is either attraction or infatuation. But the memories still have their own seat - some sweet and others painful.

A girl will always search for love everywhere she can and in every person she wants to. Whoever showers love on her is lovable to her. She will fall in love with the boy who approaches her with love and care, even if she has a boyfriend and he is away from her for sometime for some personal reasons. They name this relationship as friend at first. If her boyfriend deceives her then she immediately elevates her friend to the post of her boyfriend.

For all good reasons, she needs love and care in whatever shape it can be. Now all the rest of the people start calling her names. Why should she be the victim of curses of the society? If a boy frequently changes his girlfriend every other guy supports him and proudly says that he is a MALE being. If a girl is in a relationship with more than one boy every one finds faults in her. After all, she is searching for some true love, care and security whenever she is out of her home.

Finally she bows down her head in her own marriage and marries someone else under the pressure or wish of her parents. When she becomes a mother, whatever the love she tried to find out in this world will be given to her children. All through her life she searches for true love and at last she finds it in giving true love to her children as a mother. A mother expects nothing from her children and thus the love of a mother gains piousness.

Love rose in the hearts of my two schoolmates who were in deep love with each other and the strength of their love is that they raised their eyebrows even against the administrators of the school. Everyone thought that they were in pure love with each other, and this is true even now. Years passed by, they went to different places for higher education. Due to the low economic background the education of the boy was ceased after intermediate but the girl had finished her engineering who hails from a rich class. Besides love, the girl had expected something else that which was not possible for the boy. She chose someone else as her boyfriend who could fulfil all her needs. She enjoyed to the maximum without knowing the whereabouts of her lovable boyfriend.

In the final year of her engineering she came to know the news that he is going to get married to another girl. She roared and cried in deep distress but all her teardrops fell in vain. It is that tear from her eyes which showed that she truly loved him heart to heart even though she was in relationship with many others. For the benefit of the material wants and resplendent colors in life, she had lost a true love. The parental pressure forced the boy to marry a girl of his caste.

A few years before, ‘attraction’ was recognized as ‘love’ by the youth. But now, the same youth has replaced it with the new term ‘relationship’ though nobody knows what type of relationship that is. They start with friendship, go through ‘love’ or a ‘relationship’ and end with a row. They are not able to choose the exact person as their life partner. Feelings always change in them and they don’t stick to one person truly. After completion of all modes of enjoyment then they try to realize what life is.

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I say that the girls have the freedom of making relationships according to their feelings.
I am confused too... Is the writer ok with girls falling in love or not?
A girl who believes that she can choose!
I am just as confused as the writer of the article? Why did you name the article thus? Is it okay for boys (as you said) to date numerous girls but not wen a girl breaks a relationship for 'material gains'? wen wud ppl stop believing in the Utopian concept of one man one love. seriously grow up!!!
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