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Working mothers: To work or not to work
This is a long-running debate, that working mothers are often wrought with guilt over not giving enough time to their children or their careers. Majority of urban women are educated and working, and the moment they become mothers, demands on them increase. Where at one side she feels that her baby needs her, on the other side she wants to work and be a successful, independent wage-earner. This citizen journalist spoke with working mothers on how they deal with work and motherhood.

But now a new study done by the website Care.com suggests that there is no more working mother guilt -as mothers are enjoying maintaining a career in addition to raising a family, reported Daily Mail. And as a working mother, I agree with the study. Because a women who is educated and has all the capability to do a job, should not drop out just for 'working mother guilt'.

I agree that women are drawn emotionally with such feelings, but to provide a better life and a good lifestyle to your child a women should go on with her job. And she should also be a role model for her children as a successful and independent wage earner.

In support of this study, some other working mothers also shared their views about working mothers' guilt. Meenal Tirmizi, mother of a five-year-old girl and head of sales and marketing at Project Interior, who is a career oriented person, told this citizen journalist , that “To provide a better living and lifestyle to my daughter, and to give her the best in everything, I need to balance my family life and work life.” She also added that, “To do all this, the support from the family and spouse is very important.”

In Chai with Lakshmi, Ellen Mrinalini Shinde, clinical head of 1 to 1 help.net told Red Bangles, “The demands are external, but are much more internal and that's where the whole phenomenon of guilt happens. You are guilty when you are working, that you are not giving enough time at home. And when you spend a lot of time at home, then you think that, am I shortchanging the company, and I am not meeting the team expectations. So guilt is the common emotion that is experienced. And one of the thing one needs to do is make choices, you need to take certain choices, where to work, when to work and when to take a pause. And also to define work-life balance to yourself.”

To be a good mother, it is not about spending all your time with your child. A mother should take care of herself also, a happy mom has better chances of being a good mother, and this can only happen when the mom balances between work, family and relationship. And I think women are gifted with such patience and the ability to handle and juggle responsibilities.

 

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