The relationship between parents and children is very important and sensitive. It is a universal truth that both parents and children love each other. But sometime maintaining a relationship really becomes a challenge. Reason can be several lack of proper
THE RELATIONSHIP between parents and children is very important and sensitive. It is a universal truth that both parents and children love each other. But sometimes maintaining a relationship really becomes a challenge. Reason can be several, lack of proper guidance, overprotection in parenting, misunderstanding, conflicts of interest and so on.
Sometime the condition becomes so severe that both of them do not even want to spent time with each other. The reason is not that they do not love each other but to show that they are disappointed with the behavior of each other. It is not anticipated that the things will totally change. But still both, the parents and children can enhance their relationship to a great extent.
In the metro cities where both mother and father are working professionals and have to spend most of the time dealing with their professional things, find it difficult to spend or to manage the time for their children and this whole thing severely impacts the psychological condition of the children. This situation takes place more in the case of those children who also do not have a background support of their grandparents who are mainly the base of providing informal primary education to the children.
Today majority of children are also making a distance from the outdoor games and establishing a connection with their social area of interaction. They want to keep them close in the indoor and best option available is to enter in the virtual community of social networking. Where they enter into the virtual relations and forget about the surroundings.
Majority of cases we can see in the upper middle working strata. Where at the name of modernization parents free their children to live according in their own way and provide facilities again with the thinking for the benefit of their children that they w’ll not lag behind in this cut throat competition. But in process of providing various facilities to their “star of eyes” to whom they are working for and to whom they are providing such leisure is not enough mature and need their valuable consideration at this stage of frivolousness.
One of the recent examples which I confronted I want to put here. I recently met with aristocratic family residing in the metro city belong to the business strata. I keenly observe the children of that family in which they get what they want. Parents also full –fledged bother about their children, but these children are far away from the ground realities and unacquainted with the surroundings. This unacquaintedness may create the obstacles in the future of the children because life is all about the ups and down. Parents need to share the healthy stuff with their children and make them also acquainted with the economic condition of the family through which their children abstain from the habit of profligacy and become independent and this all mutual talk with the children make them able to inherit a good understanding with their parents and strong their relationship holistically.