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'Relationship - A complex phenomenon'
CJ | 08 Jan 2011

Relationship is a very complex phenomenon to be understood which is ultra-virus for the human being. Why people meet and why they make distance after sometime? From what substance those relationships are made up of?

EVERY STORY of relationship embarks with some coincidence but the end of the story is in the hand of human being that the person want to continuing be with it or if they find that it no longer be grown and no chance to reach at any point than it would be the ceasing point of that relationship.

Relationship is a very complex phenomenon to be understood which is ultra-virus for the human being. Why people meet and why they make distance after sometime? From what substance those relationships are made up of? As people say some of the relationships are made in a heaven and two of the people have to meet here on this planet. This meeting is pre-decided. If it is pre-decided and such relationships are made in heaven then surely it is for the goody of the people and makes their life happy.
 
If it is so than why we hear the cases of divorce after marriage and even after love marriages which is a relationship of mutual understanding and sacrifices. If it is a pre known fact that in these relationship people have to scarify for each other and where mutual understanding is most prominent circuit then after this all recognized fact why such heaven made relationship become the sore part of life?

We come close to the person who we ever meet before anywhere and that relationship become the important part of life. And sometime blood relationship is less important in front of that strange relationship. When individual enter in the college they enter into a new scenario of life where they confront with the many people and new faces which is totally unknown for them and as time goes on this formal smiling, formal hi –hello turn into a different style of meeting formal smile turn into laughing and giggling.
 
Those unknown faces become the part of daily routine even we become the use to of it. That‘s we called the relation of friendship. Blood relationship are the relation which shaped the individual and consist the tendency in it to hold the individual and make them to be keep in touch no matter whether the person is living with them or living away, across seven seas.
Relationship is that part of life which can change the life of the person.
 
If we ponder on it that what this exactly is? Some are the relationship that actually we want to continue but the situation and occurring circumstances does not allow us to follow. And it can make the difference in vary forms and in vary individual. Relationship has not its own any tangible form it is a part of life which is present in the abstract form which we only can feel by our heart. Relationship as strong as rock and simultaneously it is as sensitive as thread or vice-versa.
 
If the seed of vague occur once, it can consists all the potentials to destroy relations so only of the remedy to keep the relations healthy is that if we are unable to survive in any relationship than at least do not make such relations bitter which further become the reason of sore in life.